✨ From Wonder to Warmth: What Winter Looks Like in a Classroom That Includes Everyone

Every year around this time, I take a deep breath and remind myself that not all families celebrate the same way.

And more importantly:
Not every child needs a holiday craft to feel included.

At KIDZ EXEC Excellence, we’re not just tossing activities on Pinterest. We’re creating spaces where every child, no matter where they come from or what December looks like in their home, can feel curious, calm, connected, and celebrated.

🧳 Let’s Start with Wonder (Not Worksheets)

I’m always amazed by what children notice when we don’t rush to explain. That’s where the idea of “Celebration Suitcases” came from.
We put together little boxes with a photo, a piece of fabric, and a small object, and the questions just pour out:

“Who uses this?”
“What do they do with it?”
“Is this for a dance? A story?”

That’s real inquiry. That’s respectful curiosity. That’s learning that isn’t trying to “teach about a holiday,” but is instead creating space to listen and imagine.

🔦 Light, Warmth & Shared Traditions

We set out flashlights, scarves, and lanterns.
We trace shadows and make community light jars.
And we ask:

“How does light help people feel safe?”
“Where do we see light in our homes or celebrations?”

Children don't need to hear a lecture on Diwali or Hanukkah or Kwanzaa; they feel the warmth of shared experience through light and shadow and conversation.

✋🏽 When Winter Isn’t a Holiday

Sometimes we forget that winter isn’t only about celebration.
It’s also about slowness. Cold mornings. Steam rising from the cocoa. The way the boots line up at the door.

That’s why I created a separate winter lens.
No Santa. No elves. No exclusion. Just meaningful, accessible activities rooted in nature, rhythm, and kindness.

❄️ What That Looks Like in My Classroom

  • “Winter Feels Like…” Poetry Prompts: where kids finish the sentence with joy, curiosity, or even sadness.

  • “Snow Without Snow” Engineering:  because not every classroom experiences winter snow, but children everywhere understand warmth and care. They can still design and build little “winter shelters” using cotton, foil, sticks, or lids, learning STEM and empathy without needing real snow.

  • Community Mitten Projects — not for decoration, but for transformation. One single mitten can become a puppet, a math tool, or a kindness gift.

💙 One of My Favorite Moments:

Right before transitions, I guide the kids through something we call:
“Warm Hands, Warm Hearts.”
We rub our hands together.
We place them gently over our hearts.
We breathe in warmth…
And we breathe out kindness.

That’s the kind of ritual that sticks.
That’s the kind of moment they carry home.

✨ So What Are We Really Teaching This Season?

Not holidays.
Not crafts for crafts' sake.
But something deeper:

  • That every child belongs, even if their traditions aren’t on a bulletin board

  • That winter can feel warm in more ways than one

  • That kindness is a form of celebration, too

We’re not here to commercialize childhood.
We’re here to give children space to be seen, heard, and rooted in joy.

And if you're here reading this?
I know you're doing the same.

From one calm, creative, inclusive classroom to another,
This season, may you feel proud of how you're showing up.

Dr. Cynthia Skyers-Gordon
Founder, KIDZ EXEC Excellence

 

Cynthia Skyers-Gordon

Dr. Cynthia Skyers-Gordon, Ed.D. is the founder of SILWELL-C (Staff-Inspired Leadership for Wellness and Calm), a wellness initiative created to empower educators, leaders, and teams to thrive from within. With more than 33 years of experience in early childhood education, from assistant teacher to director to Education Coordinator, Dr. Skyers-Gordon understands the challenges and opportunities staff face each day.

SILWELL-C was born from her belief that true wellness in schools starts with the staff themselves. By providing calm leadership strategies, practical tools, affirmations, and inspiration, SILWELL-C equips educators and leaders to create supportive, balanced environments where both staff and children can flourish.

Through workshops, consultations, and creative resources, Dr. Skyers-Gordon combines her in-depth expertise with a passion for cultivating resilience, connection, and calm in every space. Whether it’s through her upcoming Wellness Toolkit, the JamBel Storybook, or the Free Wellness Hub, she continues to design practical ways for educators and leaders to sustain their own wellness while inspiring others.

At its core, SILWELL-C is more than a program; it’s a movement: a reminder that when staff lead with wellness, schools grow with strength, calm, and confidence.

https://www.silwellc.com
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