Teaching Kindness Through Friendship & Leadership

Valentine’s week gives us a beautiful opening to talk about kindness, but kindness isn’t just about cards or treats.
It’s about how we use our voices and how we treat one another every day.

This week in early learning, we can connect friendship and leadership by helping children see that kindness is a form of leadership.

When we read stories about friendship, we teach children to:

  • Use gentle voices

  • Include others

  • Speak up when something isn’t fair

When we learn about Black history leaders, we show children what kindness looks like on a bigger scale:

  • Using your voice to help others

  • Standing up for fairness

  • Leading with courage and care

The message becomes clear and consistent for children:
Leaders are kind. Leaders help. Leaders speak up.

After a read aloud, try asking:

  • “How did the character use their voice?”

  • “Was that kind or helpful?”

  • “How can we use our voices like that in our classroom?”

Whether it’s inviting a friend to play or learning about leaders who changed the world, children are learning the same lesson:
Kindness matters. Voices matter. And they matter at every age.

That’s how we build community in early learning, one gentle voice at a time.

 

Cynthia Skyers-Gordon

Dr. Cynthia Skyers-Gordon, Ed.D. is the founder of SILWELL-C (Staff-Inspired Leadership for Wellness and Calm), a wellness initiative created to empower educators, leaders, and teams to thrive from within. With more than 33 years of experience in early childhood education, from assistant teacher to director to Education Coordinator, Dr. Skyers-Gordon understands the challenges and opportunities staff face each day.

SILWELL-C was born from her belief that true wellness in schools starts with the staff themselves. By providing calm leadership strategies, practical tools, affirmations, and inspiration, SILWELL-C equips educators and leaders to create supportive, balanced environments where both staff and children can flourish.

Through workshops, consultations, and creative resources, Dr. Skyers-Gordon combines her in-depth expertise with a passion for cultivating resilience, connection, and calm in every space. Whether it’s through her upcoming Wellness Toolkit, the JamBel Storybook, or the Free Wellness Hub, she continues to design practical ways for educators and leaders to sustain their own wellness while inspiring others.

At its core, SILWELL-C is more than a program; it’s a movement: a reminder that when staff lead with wellness, schools grow with strength, calm, and confidence.

https://www.silwellc.com
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